Bachelor bash
Brown historian Howard Chudacoff plumbs the realm of the single man
by Ian Donnis
Howard P. Chudacoff
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Hoisting a pint of Harpoon IPA and surveying the scene from a bar seat during
his premiere visit to the Hot Club, Howard P. Chudacoff is right at home.
Although married for 31 years and admittedly not much of a nightlife denizen,
the Brown history professor's milieu is the archetypal dark, smoky, swank-tuned
and gin-soaked realm of the American bachelor.
It's a place long seen not just as debonair or loutish, but negative and
detrimental to the national interest. In fact, such scorn and derision were
heaped on bachelors during colonial days that they were required to pay a
special tax. "Even in the 20th century, there are some people who made a link
between a large group of unmarried men and the rise of Nazism -- that's the
link," Chudacoff says.
Sheesh, and I thought my bachelor brethren and I were just savoring our
independence. When a couple of the guys down the bar from us start to briefly
hoot for some inexplicable reason (there are virtually no women present at the
bar at this point on a recent Tuesday evening), they hardly seem like incipient
fascists. Thankfully, Chudacoff, who spent more than five years developing
The Age of the Bachelor: Creating an American Subculture (Princeton
University Press, 1999), assures me that historical perceptions of single men
behaving extremely badly are indeed overstated.
As a peak in the proportion of unmarried men in the 1890s coincided with the
proliferation of salons, cafes, pool halls, dance halls and other urban
gathering spots, "The reality is that for most of the time, most bachelors were
simply minding their own business and creating a subculture," Chudacoff says.
"What was interesting, that I had not anticipated, was that half of the men who
were bachelors were still living at home with one or both parents. In many
ways, they were simply boarders in the family household, because they had jobs
and nightlife."
Now that doesn't sound at all like the ritual of wretched excess and vulgarity
known as the bachelor party, but such venerable traditions have to get started
somewhere, I suppose. The word bachelor, for example, which has no real female
counterpart, is rooted in the medieval concept of a knight who lacked the cache
to have his own cast of vassals. And it's only relatively recently that the
contemporary meaning which we associate with bachelors has come about.
Regardless, says Chudacoff, "For over a century, the bachelor life -- mythical
or not -- has served as a male ideal."
Long before the likes of Sly Stallone and Steven Seagal were held up as
symbols of masculine strength, Teddy Roosevelt was one of the first role models
for bachelors. But the real epitome of male aggression and competitiveness,
says Chudacoff, was the Irish prizefighter, John L. Sullivan, the Boston
strongman, last of the bareknuckled heavyweight champions, who, "liked to go
into a saloon, buy everyone a drink, challenge anyone in the house to a fight,
and pay off the house for all the damages."
From 1900 through the 1960s, the percentage of unmarried adults waned as
Americans embraced marriage in growing numbers. But the percentage of unmarried
men and women has again peaked in the last decade of the century, propelled by
the prevalence of divorce and the coupling of people who dwell together, but
don't marry. Meanwhile, the average age at which men lose their freedom, er, I
mean tie the knot has climbed to 27, from 22 in 1960. "That's really a
remarkable difference in less than 40 years," marvels Chudacoff, 56, who
specializes in American urban and social history. "That has a large impact on
the number of men who are unmarried."
Other factors influencing the bachelor boom of the late 20th century include
the diversions of our consumer culture and the tendency of some college grads
to delay marriage. Chudacoff also credits Hugh Hefner, the Playboy
founder, who made bachelordom, "not only attractive, but respectable -- a
full-time occupation where [men] were not just looking at naked women and
looking for sex. Hugh Hefner, his philosophy [of a bachelor] was someone who
was a connoisseur of sports, cars, stereo equipment, movies -- all that kind of
thing."
Chudacoff, who conducted his research largely by examining old US Census
records, says it's difficult to discern insights about the health of the nation
from the relative percentage of bachelors at a given time. He does acknowledge,
however, that, "sociologically, you can relate a high proportion of bachelors
in society to high rates of crime and violence," since teenagers and young men
are more prone to acting out, violent behavior and nasty habits. Still, the
professor is not about to bash bachelors as a monolith of lumbering
lunkheads.
"Some people would say left to his own devices, a man would sit at home with a
remote control and watch ESPN or Schwarzenegger, drink beer and belch -- that
it's women who have tamed men and made them respectable," says Chudacoff. "The
question is, whether the woman is the civilizing force or the responsibility of
the family. I think it's too simplistic to say that women tame men, but there
is a moderating influence of being in a couple, rather than being a single."
And while researchers have documented that married men live longer than their
single counterparts, many bachelors are content to persist in their ways. The
point was driven home to Chudacoff when he appeared on two separate radio
programs in which two 32-year-old men, one from Wisconsin and the other from
Nigeria, extolled their satisfaction with single life, despite facing parental
pressure to get hitched.
For his part, Chudacoff married at 24 and has no regrets. "I did not write
this book because it's wishful thinking," he says. "I wrote it because it's an
interesting and overlooked subject."
Ian Donnis can be reached at idonnis[a]phx.com.