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Prudish publication makes its debut

Return to modesty
October 3, 2007 2:24:53 PM

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ELIZA: Modestly fashioned, modestly sized.

Last month, I gave my biceps a break, skipped the 840-page fall issue of Vogue, and instead perused a more modestly sized — and modestly fashioned — new mag, Eliza, which hit the stands with its debut issue this summer.

A casual reader may see the rail-thin model on the cover (who also happens to be Eliza’s editor, Summer Bellessa), in combination with inane feature articles such as “Get Your Yoga Om,” and think this is just another Cosmo knock-off. But it’s more than that — it’s Bellessa’s answer to today’s female fashion choices, which this member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints perceives as provocative, skimpy, and tacky. One senses that the Utah-based Eliza crowd feels the same way about modern female behavior in general.

“Your interaction with fashion tells a story about you,” Eliza tells us. “It’s not a tale of fickle trends or pretending to be someone else. It’s not about uncomfortable dresses and impossible heels. It’s not about titillating styles and risqué behavior ... It’s about expressing yourself, not exposing yourself.”

You won’t see any bikinis in Eliza’s swimsuit spread, just one-pieces and a few belly-covering tankinis. No cleavage shows up in the “Layers in the Sun” photo spread. And in the special “modest wedding” section, long-sleeved gowns replace trendy strapless versions.

Truth be told, lots of the clothes are hot — I’d happily don most of the dresses and swimsuits featured in the magazine, and feel quite fashionable doing so, in a decidedly vintage-hippie-chic way. But there’s something irksome about modesty that’s dictated from a detached source — something that feels uncomfortably condescending and conservative.

That discomfort is only compounded by articles such as: “Guys Guide: Top Nine Guy Movies You Should Know About” (since when is Ghostbusters a guy movie?!), or “We’ve Got Issues: Child Bride or Old Maid? Is There a Right Age to Get Married?” — both of which feel distinctly old-fashioned, as if I’ve time-traveled back to the ’50s.

It’s not surprising that Eliza’s second issue, coming out this fall, will feature an interview with Wendy Shalit, author of 2000’s Return to Modesty: Discovering the Lost Virtue and this year’s Girls Gone Mild: Young Women Reclaim Self-Respect and Find It’s Not Bad to Be Good, and webmistress behind www.modestyzone.net, “an informal community of young women who don’t have a voice in the mainstream media.” Shalit is a lightning rod in her own right, a champion of the school that accuses modern women of confusing promiscuity and crassness with sexual liberation and feminism.

Where some women might claim that they are expressing themselves by exposing themselves, the likes of Eliza and Shalit step in to declare that impossible. And in doing so, Eliza becomes more than a demure fashion magazine — it enters a delicate social debate that pits women against women, sluts against saints, tackiness against tradition.

The debate gets complicated, and expands far outside the boundaries of fashion. On one hand, it’s unlikely that the trashed flashers on Girls Gone Wild videos think much about women’s rights and sexual liberation at all. On the other hand, X-tina had a legitimate inquiry when she wondered why, to this day, “The guy gets all the glory the more he can score/While the girl can do the same and yet you call her a whore.” Can it be right to cringe upon seeing teenage girls in skimpy tops and trashy thongs; and simultaneously wonder whether girls who dress more conservatively are growing up with equally internalized confusion about gender roles?

The questions become endless. And I thought I was just reading a fashion ’zine...

I hope Eliza — which is currently available only in Utah or through its Web site — does well. It’s a refreshing addition to the virtual newsstand. And it’s an intriguing voice in an ongoing, and controversial, debate.

On the Web
Eliza: elizamagazine.com

COMMENTS

As a graduate student who spends most of my time on a college campus, I find the idea of a modest women’s fashion magazine refreshing. Admittedly, women don’t attend college with the single intention of finding a husband anymore, but one has to ask exactly what it is that the majority of young single female college students are trying to attract. Attending summer courses is now akin to visiting the seedier side of Vegas ten years ago. Frankly, many college women dress like prostitutes; mini skits or really short shorts, belly exposing lacy tops and at least one tattoo. All they need to make the ensemble is an oversize pink purse which most have exchanged for a large backpack. The idea that one might view a modestly dressed young woman who looks like she takes herself and her life seriously would be a wonderful change of pace. I would think that most women would relish the notion that they might go out into the day looking like they are ready to take on the world rather than looking like they want to world to take them to bed.

POSTED BY vils AT 10/04/07 11:08 AM
I agree - I also consider this behavior to be personally damaging to those of us who are trying to build a career, a marriage...in short a -real- life. It makes it that much harder to be taken seriously. I've also noticed that a high percentage of these women tend to have a baseline aggressive/competitive stance towards other women, as if we're all competing for a limited commodity of creepy stares from men. It's pathetic, toxic and annoying. Oh the best is when you're married and they try (in their convoluted personal calculus of success) to score looks/attention from married men (looks from married guy 50 points, if he's with an attractive woman bonus 25 cause I totally 'beat her'!). My husband and I both find this crap insulting and annoying --we're also both educators who deal with young women on a regular basis and consider it a matter of personal/professional ethics to discourage and ignore this all-to-prevalent type of behavior in college age women. Sadly, some of them think think they need to act this way or that it will get them a better grade/job. No doubt it works on some people, but in the long run I don't think it translates to real power, success, money, or jobs -or the kind of man you would want to marry for that matter.

POSTED BY SEG AT 10/05/07 2:15 PM

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